First, if your nuts are not roasted, then lightly toast them in a saute pan on medium to low heat. Keep an eye on them so they do not go past the light gold stage. If the sesame seeds are untoasted, toast them in a saute pan on medium to low heat and do not let them go past golden color. Once the color begins to show on the nuts and the seeds, they will toast rather quickly. So, keep an eye on them and have a place to transfer them to once the desired color is achieved.